Posted by Sylvia Ruma on 7th Apr 2014
To many mothers, life can seem chaotic. Whether you are a working mom or a stay at home mom, there just does not seem to be enough hours in the day to get things done. The running around seems endless; yet, you never seem to be accomplishing as much as you hope.
One of the worst effects of this roller-coaster of a life is that it can affect your health. Many busy mothers find that they don’t have time to eat or prepare healthy food or engage in a regular exercise program. Some get stressed over their busy lives and develop health conditions that could otherwise be prevented. The negative effects are numerous; therefore, a balanced lifestyle is certainly necessary.
Do you feel like you are sinking under the weight of your daily life? Do you feel like throwing in the towel (though it isn’t an option at this point)? Don’t give up just yet. There is a lot you can do to help you live a balanced life.
Though the thought of making lists may sound tedious to someone who already has too much on their hands, it is the best way to ensure that you accomplish more. Preparing a list of things to do and prioritizing items on the list will help you focus on the most important tasks that need to be accomplished for the day. Many busy moms are distracted by little things that may not be as important and end up wasting precious time and energy on these tasks instead of concentrating on the more important tasks. Therefore, lists will help you create a schedule and work on important items first.
If you find that you don’t have time to prepare healthy meals every day and are eating junk food as a result, prepare your meals in advance. Pick out a day and time when things are slow and use this free time to prepare healthy meals. Portion the meals and store them in your refrigerator or freezer. You will only need to warm them when meal times come around. This is a great way of ensuring that you and your family eat healthy, home cooked meals.
Exercising will enhance your health and improve your fitness levels. You will be better able to handle challenges with a healthy body and mind. Most moms complain that they simply don’t have the time to exercise. Your exercise program does not need to be an hour of intense cardio. Rather, you can have a brisk walk or jog with the stroller and get your child out for fresh air in the process. You can also have short 10 minute exercise sessions throughout the day. It will all add up.
You may be feeling overwhelmed by it all, but there are a lot of great moments being a mom. You should, therefore, keep these moments at the forefront of your mind. You can take photos to remind you of those special moments. Remembering the good times will help you remember why you are doing it all. Most importantly, it will keep you in a positive frame of mind and help you avoid getting stressed.
Your children will eventually grow up and leave home one day. So cherish your time with them now. Do what you can to enjoy being a mom in the present. Being a mom is one of the most important jobs in the world. You have the opportunity to mold your children’s minds and help them develop into responsible adults. Find fun activities to spend time with your kids, such as going to the park or participating in arts and crafts. You will find that you also enjoy these activities.